I feel particularly passionate about my work as a couples’ therapist. I approach all sessions from a place of inquiry and curiosity; however, I bring an extra layer into my work when more than one person is involved. I tend to believe that “it takes two to tango,” meaning that in coming together in partnership, individuals bring their complexes to manifest relational patterns reminiscent of family-of-origin dynamics. These patterns re-experienced through partnership can be a source of healing, but often can perpetuate traumas when healthy communication is lacking, or projection is abundant. I enjoy practicing mirroring with couples to assist each individual in witnessing the other interacting with a third party.

In Jungian psychology, there is a concept call the “third” that refers to the energy created when in relationship. I attempt to observe, feel, and reflect this energy with couples to bring about more consciousness into any possible imbalances. In doing so, I try my best to provide an unbiased presence that can draw attention to relational tension. In addition, I strive to promote an “inner coniunctio,” or “inner marriage,” meaning a balance within oneself that allows individuals to show up more whole in partnership.